- First you have to know what you like and next time before he goes down on you tell him exactly how you want it done. For instance "baby i like when you go really slow". If your not to sure what you like then you can wait til the next time he goes down when he does something that you like just tell him don't stop or moan louder so he can get the picture.
I feel self-conscious about being on top, what can i do to shake the feeling?
-Feel good about yourself to start , your in bed with someone who think you look great so you should think the same. However you can try a few thing like: turning of the lights, keeping your shirt or bra on, getting lost in the moment, if your more into the sex you wont think about your body. My personal fav, do reverse cowgirl where your back is to him so you dont have to feel weird about his eyes on you and you can just go to work, so to say.
My guy doesn't like to change positions, and I get bored doing the same thing.
- This is simple , take control! There are two easy options, first tell him you want to try something else and ask him if he willing. Or the better option while having sex just take control and move him into another position. For instance if your in the spooning position slowly but surely roll over on to your stomach, and not your in a new position. Basically just put him where you want him to go
